This concept, like the 1990s “inner child” self-help movements, can be taken in the wrong way by people who really need to learn graciousness and generosity. I saw this first hand. I tend to believe that the narcissistic tendencies of many today are rooted in “being good to yourself.” This message has been dangerously distorted. I fully agree that many need to learn self nurturing. I am again hearing messages that loudly echo 1990s and before pop psychology.
You make an interesting point. However, I believe assertiveness has more to do with standing up to people who want to control you, rather than giving yourself permission to be narcissistic. I agree that it could certainly be argued that some narcissistic individuals could theoretically distort this type of messaging as an excuse to be cruel. However here, I wish to reach those who feel they cannot say "no" in any situation, especially those situations that they do not wish to be in.
This concept, like the 1990s “inner child” self-help movements, can be taken in the wrong way by people who really need to learn graciousness and generosity. I saw this first hand. I tend to believe that the narcissistic tendencies of many today are rooted in “being good to yourself.” This message has been dangerously distorted. I fully agree that many need to learn self nurturing. I am again hearing messages that loudly echo 1990s and before pop psychology.
You make an interesting point. However, I believe assertiveness has more to do with standing up to people who want to control you, rather than giving yourself permission to be narcissistic. I agree that it could certainly be argued that some narcissistic individuals could theoretically distort this type of messaging as an excuse to be cruel. However here, I wish to reach those who feel they cannot say "no" in any situation, especially those situations that they do not wish to be in.
Thank you. I understand your intent.
Thank you!!
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